Just Ask Sooz

Dear Sooz:

For a while now, I have wondered how broken you have be before you’re too far gone to be saved. I used to think I was too far gone, but then an old friend came back into my life we’ll call him guy x,  and he showed me that I could be loved.

I started to fall for him, but he was stuck between me and another girl. For a while, he flirted with both of us and said he didn’t know which of us to choose. At first, we overlooked it because, well, he was a guy and you know how guys can be.

After I became friends with the other girl, and realized how great of a person she was, that’s when I realized how much pain it was really causing us. At first, I didn’t notice my pain, but when I did,  I pushed it back inside.

I knew I needed to do something for myself, but it still shattered my heart. Now, I am starting to get to be friends with this other guy, we’ll call guy m. I told guy x that we should just go back to being just friends because the other way was causing too much pain.

The other girl introduced me to guy m, and we are still getting to know each other. He is very kind, and funny, and I think I’m starting to like him. Here’s the thing, he likes me, but I’m afraid… What if I fall for him and get hurt, or, what if I’m not good enough? What if he deserves better? What should I do Sooz?

Broken Girl 18


Dear Broken Girl 18:

Here is what I have learned through many relationships in life. “Nothing ventured, nothing gained” Life is a crapshoot my dear, being only 18, you will probably get your heart broken several more times before finding Mr. Right.

Don’t let the bad taste of one bad apple sour you on the other apples in the tree. You deserve to be happy, take a chance, fall in love, lust, and have some fun. If it works out, great, if it doesn’t, well,  move on and go to the next man.

Take a chance with guy M and be happy while you can. Good luck.

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Comments (11)

  1. nico44l

    Then again, even by eating one wrong apple there can be enough. Great example is Adam and Eva, see now their results….

    March 11, 2017
    1. dreamshadow59

      Hehehehehehehe….Very Funny!!!!

      March 11, 2017
  2. Munkyman

    I think Girl A & Girl B should hook up & then marry Guy X in a 3way & Guy M can clean the pool… it’s gonna need a lot of cleaning.

    March 11, 2017
  3. dreamshadow59

    Hehehehe…..I love it. :-)

    March 12, 2017
  4. noahbody

    Great advice as always!

    March 12, 2017
    1. dreamshadow59

      Thank you…

      March 12, 2017
  5. MindLint

    I think Broken Girl and her friend should come to Iowa and join me for some fun. Nothing like experience. LOL

    March 12, 2017
  6. briton

    She wouldn’t marry me when I was drunk and I wouldn’t marry her when I was sober.

    March 12, 2017
  7. pughugs

    Wow. That puts everything into perspective. I think that we all have our own “Guy X” in our lives, be it a close friend or a significant other.

    March 20, 2017
    1. dreamshadow59


      March 20, 2017
  8. fancieprincess

    Good advice.

    March 27, 2017